Clinical Counseling · Continuing Education

Supporting the systems that support families.

Trainings, workshops, and clinical practice for professionals working with caregivers and children with developmental disabilities — grounded in research, not just theory.

Zuleida Aleman-Herba, PhD, LMHC, BC-TMH

Family CENTER OF CARE Educational The fight for IEP · 504 Medical Feeling unheard, facing stigma Financial Earning & caring collide Community Support fades, isolation grows
About

A clinician and researcher who's lived this work.

Portrait of Zuleida Aleman-Herba

Dr. Aleman-Herba is a licensed mental health counselor and core faculty of Clinical Counseling and Rehabilitation at Salve Regina University, and an alumna of Lesley University in Cambridge, MA. She has practiced counseling since 2009 across substance use, drug court, community, and private practice settings — working with individuals, couples, families, caregivers, LGBTQ+ clients, and people with medical, sensory, and neurodivergent needs.

Her clinical approach is integrative, drawing on person-centered, disability-affirming, and trauma-informed work, alongside Emotion-Focused Therapy, the Gottman Method, EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and Dialectical Behavior Therapy — always shaped around the person in front of her rather than a fixed protocol.

"What motivated this research was the intersection of lived experience and professional inquiry."

That intersection — personal experience as a caregiver and years of clinical practice — led to her original research, They Don't Get It: Caregivers of Children with Developmental Disabilities and Social Support, which now grounds the trainings she offers to other professionals.

Private Practice

Individual therapy, couples work, and family consultation.

Alongside her research and trainings, Dr. Aleman-Herba maintains a private practice with a broader focus — working primarily with women navigating their most significant relationships, whether with themselves, a partner, or their family.

Individual Therapy

Support for women navigating identity, transitions, and relationship patterns.

Couples Work

Using the Gottman Method and Emotion-Focused Therapy to help partners rebuild connection.

Family Consultation

Guidance for families navigating disability, caregiving roles, or major transitions.

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Framework

Disability-affirming, not diagnosis-first.

Trainings are built on the Disability Affirming Practice (DA-T) framework, which treats disability as a social construct shaped by environment and access — not a defect to be fixed. It draws on the WHO's bio-psycho-social model and keeps the person, not the diagnosis, directing the pace and priorities of care.

The RESPECTFUL interview protocol — a holistic frame for every intake
RReligion / Spirituality
EEconomic Background
SSexual Identity
PPersonal Style / Education
EEthnic / Racial Identity
CChronology / Life Span
TTrauma
FFamily Background
UUnique Physical Characteristics
LLocation & Language
Trainings & Workshops

Continuing education built from research, not just theory.

Each session is designed for mental health professionals and can be delivered as a standalone workshop or paired series for teams, agencies, and graduate programs.

Two-part session

Engaging the Family System with Disability

A research-informed look at the experience of caregivers of children with developmental disabilities, combining the existing literature with original qualitative findings.

  • Review of existing caregiver research
  • Original qualitative study findings
  • Clinical implications for any setting
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For clinicians & agencies

Disability Affirming Practice (DA-T) & History

An orientation to disability history, models, and law for professionals engaging people with disability in any therapeutic or care setting.

  • Models of disability & disability culture
  • The RESPECTFUL interview protocol
  • Disability history, advocates & ADA law
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Assessment framework

Neurodevelopmental Caregiver Clinical Assessment

A structured framework for assessing where a caregiver is — from treatment coordination through adult services planning — and what's missing around them.

  • Stages of the caregiving journey
  • Systems burden as a clinical concern
  • Educational, medical, financial & community gaps
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Testimonials

What clinicians are saying.

"This workshop gave new insights about the caregiver experience, how to meet them with more empathy, and ways to improve my language and to improve rapport. The sessions built on one another, and it was all very clear! 10/10!"

Clinical Social Worker

"This was very informative, especially as I think about my clinical practice with couples, and adjusting therapeutic roles around the identified client who has a disability."

Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Care New England

"I'll listen to anything you want to cover! So engaging!"

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist

"Increased appreciation of the many challenges facing families raising & supporting their children with neurodevelopmental disabilities."

Licensed Clinical Counselor
Research

What caregiving mothers said, in their own words.

Findings echoed the RAISE Family Caregiver's Listening Survey, which named two top concerns: caregiver services & support, and financial well-being. From those conversations came a caregiver's bill of rights — a reminder that caregiving is work that deserves support, not just recognition.

The Magic Wand Question

"If you could wave a magic wand and change things for all caregiving mothers, what changes would you make?"

A solution-focused technique used to surface what caregivers actually need — not just what systems assume they need.

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    Identity & Relationships

    The right to an identity and relationships outside of caregiving work.

  • 02

    Advocacy Without Stigma

    The right to advocate as an expert with lived experience.

  • 03

    Education & Economic Security

    The right to pursue education and careers that build financial security.

  • 04

    Complicated Feelings

    The right to have complicated feelings about caregiving in an ableist society.

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    Transformative Impact

    The right to use lived experience to shape policy and help other families.

Blog

Reflections, research, and resources.

Articles and graphics on caregiving, disability-affirming practice, and the research behind the trainings.

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